two mindsets that will help you thrive

1,000 True Fans by Kevin Kelly

You can't always please everyone, so find your people and keep 'em!

 

Fuck Yes or No by Mark Manson

This notion can be applied to any realm of life, although this article speaks on relationships specifically. With relationships, the mindset should universally apply : If its not a FUCK YES, its a FUCK NO! Once you learn that, you will be much more selective in your endeavors and waste much less time (trust me).